i've been thinking bout marriage recently...
now that my sis is married, and my big bro is marrying soon (it's 100110. hehehe)
yeah, thank you, i DO realize that i am still young to be talkin bout this.
i'm not even 19 yet.
still... marriage is something BIG!
i realized today that, for me to love someone,
is not because he/she is related by blood, have the same interest as me, or good looking.
it's more than that....
when i like someone, it's because we both understand.
and it's not any sort of understanding.
it's about da'wah, it's about fikrah.
i just realised this...
even in a friendship, even in the workplace, even in a marriage...
i can't stand looking at the people today.
living for most people is just about song, screen, sex, and sports.
you may not realise this, but even these things give you the most fun ... and pleasure?
addictive...
i want to work for islam!
and that's why, i must find a husband that does the same.
or i will be left from the dawah stream.
i don't want to see "people who call themselves muslim but live a lifestyle of an atheist" increase in this world. let them become true muslim and work towards the caliphs system, and Allah's jannah. insyaallah...
rileks sis, when the time comes, it will happen.
ReplyDeletetake one step at a time, i don't want you to stumble just because of the eagerness to get married
do as much as you can now while u're still single because u might have to think for two after that
and pray that u can still do the same after u got married
yup.
ReplyDeletebut....
hahaha....
that's not the point of my post this time.
you see...
i had a lil conflict with friends coz we don't share the same fikrah
and i thought...
it'll be hard if i marry sumone like this.
there'll be too much conflict.
still... thanks!