desperate teenagers

You know how teenagers these days are?
couple: simple, normal, isuue.

hmmm....
i understand it well enough when ppl say that 'love is blind'.

"when you're in love, there's no right or wrong,"

Karena Kapoor from Jab We Met.

aiyo!

guys! girls! think la for a bit...
where will coupling actually take you?
zinaa. sorry if it sound harsh.
but before u realize it, it just happens.
u dun know what satan is capable of.

Allah said, "la taqrabu zinaa"
don't go close to zinaa.
have you ever wondered why He said 'don't go close to zinaa' instead of 'don't do zinaa'
subhanallah, literature is wonderful!

when He said don't go close to zinaa, it includes all the small small things such as, dating, holding hands, kissing, excessive drooling, etc. cause all of these might lead us to doing zinaa. na'uzubillah.

as for girls, ladies, and women,

don't you feel like it's such a waste to let your real husband get the leftovers?
well, you've touched hands with other men before, propbabaly kissed.
isn't it better to let your husband to feel your gentle touch instead of other men?
and share the first kiss? not some guy you don't even know how your future with him is.
and as highschoolers, you don't even know if he can support you in the future, let alone have a future with him.

maybe i said too much?
hmmm... well, i'm not exactly that pious.
i do have little crush on japanese and hindi stars.
but i have my stand; i will never couple.

the other day, when i was in my driving class,

my tutor asked: "don't you have a bf (boyfriend)?"
just to joke around, i answered: "yup, bestfriend (bf)"
he just laughed and he said: "most girls your age have boyfriends"
and i thought, 'alhamdulillah, i'm not most girls'
i told him my stand, i'm anti couple.
he asked: is it because of past heartbrake?
me: nope. i just dun wanna get involved in it.
i actually do despise ppl who couple, but i dun actually show it to them.
i just tell myself, 'dear, don't be like them.'

my junior the other day mentioned how his parents were couple since highschool.
but, it's not like many reltionship ends like that. who knows how it'll end?
we plan, Allah decide. if he really is the right person, Allah will get the two person together in the end anyway.

my aunt gave this dua' to me:

" Ya Allah, if he is not the right guy from me, please separate us and give me a peace of mind. but if he is the best guy destined for me, please separate us now, give me a peace of mind and let us meet again when the time has come."

my aunt used this dua' and her dua' was granted, now she's happily married to that person. alhamdulillah. may Allah bless their marriage.

so, in the end, it all depend on us.
we decide our life.
but if you give it a thought,
when a woman and man is together, satan accompanies them.
and it is already clearly mentioned in Koran.

"La Taqrabu Zinaa"